What I Learned This Week

I had a glorious day. And by glorious, I mean there was no school today which means NO STUPID ALARM CLOCK FOR ME thankyouverymuch!

And since there was no school, that also means I didn’t have to check any math homework. But, just in case you were wondering, Stevie did receive the requirements for yet another 4th grade project on Friday, less than a week after his last project – The Martin Luther King, Jr. passport – was due. Heaven help me, I’m sure there will be a time when I will miss scouring the house for pipe cleaners, and repeating “We need to get this thing done!” 419 times over a three-day period, but right now, I just need a break from the project. In the meantime, I’ll be overseeing the painting of a cereal box.

It was 64 degrees today so I decided today would be the day I would do all my runnin’.

First, we had to drop off scout shirts at the tailor because Alex is a first-time scout, and as a Webelos, Stevie changes from the navy blue shirt to the khaki one, so there are all kinds of patches to be sewn on. And no, I cannot do it myself, because 1. I don’t sew, and 2. I don’t think I even have a needle up in this joint. The cub-master made an announcement at our scout meeting that a seamstress at a men’s clothing store downtown charges $1.00 per patch, but I found that out to be a big fat lie when I was charged $21.20 for 18 patches. And then, when I discovered that I had given her the wrong information about Stevie’s Webelos shirt and returned to the store to let her know I only needed 8 patches sewn on, she told them to credit my card $5.00. I questioned her about the charge-per-patch fee and all of a sudden her broken english became EVEN MORE BROKEN and LORD HELP ME AND MY PATIENCE. After some “negotiations” they credited my account $7.00 and I learned a very important lesson today.

1. Next time, let McDaddy take the shirts to the Guard Base and be done with it, even if it takes two more weeks to get them back.

After that, we headed for the mall so that I could get my grubby hands on a copy of Big Mama’s book, Sparkly Green Earrings. Seeing Melanie’s name in print totally makes me want to write a book now (which will make my mother-in-law happy because she has told me for years that I should totally write one!).

And yes, I realize this wasn’t the greatest of hair days. You can blame the crazy West Virgina wind. Still, I am so excited for her. If I lived in Texas I suspect we’d be fast friends, because we share a love for reality television and chips and salsa.

And speaking of chips and salsa… (don’t you just love my segue?) I learned something else today.

2. Even during the Biggest Loser competition it is possible to eat your favorite meal at Chilis, even though combined it has more than 2,500 calories. The realization that I could just eat half the meal was like getting hit upside the head with a football. I was so proud of myself for sending 2 whole chicken crispers and half of my sides back.

I also learned:

3. I am really craving chocolate this week.

4. I am having a hard time not eating chocolate this week.

5. I have no business buying Betty Crocker’s Brownie Cookie Supreme Bars.

6. You can’t really count salsa as a serving of vegetables. Or can you? It is made up of mostly vegetables….

7. Those little 90 calorie Cokes are handy as all get-out.

8. An itty-bitty Peppermint Patty has 50 calories. A total waste of 50 calories in my humble opinion.

9. I really, really, REALLY need to sync my calendars.

10. Always back-up your beloved iPhone before updating your operating system.

11. If you lose your contacts when updating your IOS, it is possible to get them back, though, they may return in duplicate or triplicate form.

12. Zumba for Wii provides a great workout.

That’s what I learned this week.

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Math Blaster – A Review

Recently, I received an e-mail asking if my boys (and I) would possibly want to check out the new features on the Math Blaster site. They were eager to get started because they really enjoyed the site the last time they were provided with a membership.

Math Blaster is a fun arcade-style video game that incorporates math into its space-themed site. The site “Provides “Blasters” with a fun way to learn essential math skills. In a nut-shell, Math Blaster is a futuristic online adventure site that is filled with wacky aliens, gadgets, and lots of math.”

According to the Math Blaster Site:

Once your kids are logged in and on board the spaceship to Math Blaster, they are able to design their own Blaster Cadet, a personalized avatar that will run, jump and blast through the Math Blaster spaceship. Using the Molecular Modulator, kids have their choice of different hair styles, faces, eyes, and even species for their Blaster Cadet! As kids progress through the game and tackle the math training activities, they will earn merits and achievements. When they earn merits, kids will climb the ranks in the Intergalactic Space Patrol (ISP), and their Blaster uniform will be upgraded for all of Math Blaster to see!

I have always been impressed that the site is suitable for both of my boys, in spite of their three-year age difference. I think this is largely due to the fact that the site has a nice variety of math subjects with different levels of difficulty. Both were able to quickly navigate the site and they really enjoyed creating their own avatars, or in this case Blaster Cadets to play with. Stevie, my ten-year-old (whose blaster cadet is named Jason StoneLaser) enjoys playing hide and seek with his Mutt – Cyber Xenon. His favorite thing about the site is “The robot who gives interesting information about different topics (how much the earth weighs, each fingerprint it different, Venus is the only planet that rotates clock-wise, etc.) when you click on him.” Alex’s (age seven) blaster cadet is named Sean SilverFireball and his MUTT is named Speedy Crater. Alex’s favorite part of the site is “The red alert door that requires you to shoot asteroids and soccer balls and cheese.”

*Knowledge Adventure’s Math Blaster is proof that video games can be educational and fun! As a parent, I love that. The site has this to say about Knowledge Adventure:

Knowledge Adventure is the creator of award-winning educational products like JumpStart and Math Blaster and is trusted by over 20 million parents. You can find our virtual worlds online at www.MathBlaster.com and www.JumpStart.com. In the Math Blaster galaxy, kids can explore a futuristic world, voyage to strange new planets and discover wacky alien races, all while practicing their math skills. At JumpStart.com, kids can explore magical worlds, discover and unlock games, videos, and story books that teach everything from math to reading.

Since they last visited Math Blaster, the boys were excited about some of the new features on the Math Blaster site.

  • In HyperBlast, players can hop on a hypercycle and blast through aliens while solving math problems.
  • The Monster Mutt Pod allows you to decorate, feed and play with your Mutt in its own room.
  • The Nebula Knockout allows your pet to train and then battle other Mutts.

Another cool feature of the Math Blaster site, is the Math Blaster Blog which is a great resource for parents (and kids, too!) because it is chock-full of math and science information, including family fun, current events, learning tips and science facts. I also “liked” Math Blaster on Facebook so I can keep up with new site features, games and stories.


Math Blaster is a hit around here. My boys and I appreciate the opportunity to play around on the site.

In the interest of full disclosure: I was given a three-month membership to Math Blaster in exchange for this honest review. As always, the opinions expressed in this post are my own.

Just Some More Of My Crazy

It is Tuesday evening and I am watching Dance Moms. It is that time of the month and I would knock a joker flat-out right now for a chocolate cake donut connection donut. Folks, 39-year-old hormones do not play. Especially when they’ve been on a  five-week biggest loser quest.

Phew. It feels good to get that off of my chest.

And speaking of donuts, I am hungry.

I am also cold.

In fact, I have been cold for weeks.

It probably doesn’t help that its a whopping 27 degrees here. I’m cold outside. I’m cold inside. No matter what I do, I can’t really get warm and stay warm. McDaddy turned up the heat this past weekend, but I think the thermostat is on strike because it sits out in the weather and if I had to sit out in that weather, I’d just give up, too!

It’s so cold, that McDaddy found two dead mice (2 DEAD MICE) in a trashcan in the closet where our hot water tank is. The stupid suckers came in here to get warm and froze to death in a trashcan.  Luckily, McDaddy disposed of the bodies before I even knew they were here in the house, but don’t think I don’t look in that trashcan every single time I walk past that room in the basement now. McDaddy said they simply stopped by to see their cousins – Duke and Apolo (our hamsters) but we won’t even go there.

And speaking of two DEAD MICE, I am ready to MOVE!

Because if my math is correct (and it probably isn’t!) and provided that the very first mouse we ever caught in a trap around here was the actual mouse involved in the standoff, that brings the total mouse count over the course of three years in this house to FIVE. And the last four have been caught over the course of the last three weeks.

So… We’re looking for a 4-bedroom house, free of mice, with a level driveway, on a level road, that is not in a flood plain, that is free of mice, and has a large garage. Actually, a 2-car garage would suit me just fine, but McDaddy is of the opinion that you can never have too many garages. Or vehicles for that matter.

I am looking forward to spring. And so are my flip-flops.

And did I mention, I was hungry?

The only thing I have to look forward to eating this evening is the raw honey/Ceylon cinnamon cocktail I’ll have just before I go to bed.

I have several friends who are using this concoction for weight loss, but stupid me used the wrong cinnamon the entire first week, and well, after a little research, I learned that did more harm than good. I’ll be sure to let you know if it’s effective.

One thing I can tell you is that raw honey stinks and tastes nasty. At first, I was eating both the honey and cinnamon straight off the spoon while holding my nose. On several occasions, I gagged and came ever so close to puking before talking the little hangy-down thing in my throat into hanging on just a second longer while I swallowed that mess. It reminded me of Fear Factor and what those people must have felt like when they were challenged to eat a Madagascar hissing cockroach. Though, I’m sure this raw honey with its pieces of bee wings and pollen is much worse. McDaddy downs it without the first bit of trouble, but after 20 years of my cooking, I guess maybe raw honey isn’t so bad after all.

Yes, you read that right. McDaddy is taking the concoction too, which surprises me because he typically sings “The Witch Doctor Song” anytime I get the bright idea to try something at home that might be better treated by a real, living, breathing, Doctor.

Like when I told him I was going to let my friend Jessica do ear candling on me.

He had a heyday with that one (and still reminds me of it from time to time), but if he had eczema of the inner ear like I do, he’d try anything once. I would never want you to think I was peddling medical advice around here (though I’ve been known to self-diagnose myself a time or ten), so before you try the ear candling, you should know that most of the research regarding ear candles, well, just read this….

Ear candling, also called ear coning or thermal-auricular therapy, is an alternative medicine practice claimed to improve general health and well-being by lighting one end of a hollow candle and placing the other end in the ear canal. Medical research has shown that the practice is both dangerous and ineffective and does not help remove earwax or so-called toxins.


I guess me and my PMS will go to bed, where hopefully I will dream of eating donuts on a beach and not a pair of dead mice in my basement trash-can.

You’re welcome.

Sit A Spell

It’s that time again, folks, and I have a doozie for you this week.

You remember that I’m doing this Biggest Loser thing, right? We are now in week five (of eight) and Tracy, our Biggest Loser Boss decided to kick things up a notch.

Everyday (or almost every day) she assigns a virtual challenge, which we can choose to do, or not do for extra points. I have always been a fan of the ‘extra credit’ – especially in 9th grade, where I could write down five Geometry-related words and their definitions and raise my test score from an “E” to a “D”. And sadly, I am not even kidding. The extra credit is precisely the reason I can even remember that Goldback’s Conjecture was a Geometry-related term. Lord knows I didn’t know what it was back then and I have not a clue what it is 25 years later, but I remember using it on an extra-credit opportunity. Had it not been for the extra credit (and the fact that I had a tutoring session from a high school kid every Sunday at 3:00 PM), I would have failed the class. Instead, Goldback and his Conjecture helped me to “pass” Geometry with a D-. I headed straight for Algebra II and never looked back.

But anyway, where was I?

Oh yes, virtual challenges.

Because we are in Week 5, and because Tracy really wants the very best for our bodies (HA!) she sent us two calendars with a set of exercises on each and told us they were our virtual challenges for the month of February. One is titled “Fab AB February” and the other? The other should be called DYING A SLOW DEATH IN FEBRUARY (DASDIF), but actually it’s called “February’s Wall Sits and Donkey kicks“.

For instance, the virtual challenge for today, on Fab AB February is 20 sit ups (or crunches) / 6 push-ups / 20 second plank. I’ll save the plank for another day, but you should know it is more than just lying face-down on a flat surface and taking a picture.

The virtual challenge for today on the DASDIF calendar is 60 second wall-sit / 35 donkey kicks (both legs) / 1:05 second wall sit.

I’ll say that nice and slow for you….

T-h-e  w-a-l-l  s-i-t.

I had never heard of the wall sit before Saturday when I did it for the first time. Imagine, if you will, holding yourself in a sitting position while not sitting. Believe me when I tell you it’s not nearly as easy as it sounds.

Here’s what Wikipedia has to say about the wall sit.

A wall sit, also known as a Roman Chair, is an exercise done to strengthen the quadriceps muscles. It is characterized by the two right angles (do we really have to talk about angles?) formed by the body, one at the hips and one at the knees. The person wall sitting places their back against a wall with their feet shoulder width apart and a little ways out from the wall. Then, keeping their back against the wall, they lower their hips until their knees form right angles. This is a very intense work out for the quadriceps muscles. It can be very painful to hold this position for extended periods of time. Wall sits are used as a primary strengthening exercise in many sports requiring strong quadriceps like fencing, ice hockey, sailing (mostly small boat racing), skiing and track and field. This exercise is also used as a disciplinary activity in the armed forces. It takes up little space, and can be administered easily in classroom settings to misbehaving soldiers-in-training.

The safety of this exercise is disputed; the knees bear most of the load, especially when held at 90 degrees. It is a terrible exercise for someone with an existing knee problem.

Just to be clear, a wall sit, when done correctly looks like this.

And no, that is not me in the picture. Nor did I take the picture.

The fact is, I had trouble wall sitting for 15 seconds on Saturday. Three days into the DASDIF calendar and I am still not able to bend to a full 90 degree angle, (stupid Geometry!) but I did surprise myself this evening when I was able to hold the position for 65 seconds.

After the 25 second mark, the wall sit is absolute torture. I began to sweat and my legs begin to shake. Who needs water-boarding when you could have them do a wall sit? And I also wondered if Micheal Phelps and Apolo Ohno do wall sits as part of their Olympic training.

I’ll give you a second to try the wall sit. And then, I’d love for you to tell me how long you could hold it before your legs started to shake. And then I can say, “I told you so!” The wall sit increases by 10 seconds each day which means by the end of the month, biggest loser participants wanting extra credit should be able to hold the position for five minutes.


Do you know how long five friggin’ minutes is, when you’re in that position?

After three days of the wall sit, my thighs are I am telling you the chances of me being able to pull that off will be slim.


I’m just wondering if Tracy will allow me to write down and define donkey kick, plank, torture, quadriceps and wall sit….

That’s what I learned this week.

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We’ve Come A Long Way, Baby!

McDaddy and I graduated from the same high school in 1992. In a lot of ways, it seems like a lifetime ago.

Despite the fact that we grew up just fifteen miles apart (and the fact that he lived less than a mile from my grandma), had it not been for a school closing and subsequent consolidation, there is a very real possibility that we would have never met. Instead, we both showed up for the first day of summer band, ready to make new friends and lasting memories. We both played alto saxophone  and immediately became friends. It wasn’t until much later that we actually started dating. In fact, I spent most of our high school years pining away for his best friend.

I kissed him (sounds bad, I know!) for the first time on his sixteenth birthday while he was at my house tutoring me in Trigonometry. I was never more proud of a “C” in my life, but I can’t help but think how much better I might have done had I kept my mind focused on working with angles, instead of working an angle.

By the end of our senior year, I was drawn to him. And why wouldn’t I be? He was polite, respectful, fun, brilliant, charming, and cute. It took some convincing, but by the time we graduated, we were a couple.

The rest, as they say, is history.

We’ve been together since 1992, which means I’ve been with him over half my life. This past weekend, we attended our 20th reunion. It was so much fun seeing and reconnecting with people we graduated with, but disheartening that out of 400+ graduates, only about 60 participated in the three events.

Through the years, we’ve been through a lot together…

1992 – visiting him at Tech School just after joining the Air Force.


1996 – just after engagement (I have no idea why this picture is so small)


1998 – Our wedding


2001 – London: The first stop on our European Tour


2002 – Pregnant at our 10 year class reunion


2003 Christmas Picture – We are parents! (Stevie – 1 year old)


2006 Christmas Picture – (Stevie -4, Alex – 1)


2009 – Deployment to Guantanamo Bay, Cuba (We visited the week of our 11th wedding anniversary)


 2011 – Summer Vacation to Florida


2012 – 20th Reunion

Wow, we are so blessed. There isn’t another soul on the planet I would want to share this ride with. I love you, McDaddy! 

  • 20 Years
  • 2 kids
  • 11 countries
  • 14 vehicles
  • 2 campers
  • 36 states
  • 2 motorcycles
  • 3 hamsters
  • 2 Lasek surgeries
  • 4 homes
  • 6 company cars
  • 1 deployment

We’ve Come A Long Way, Baby!

Who I Am

I am the girl who loves being involved.

I am the girl who could get rich if talking was in high demand.

I am the girl who loves summer. Mostly because it means I can sleep late.

I am the girl who loves to laugh. And make people laugh.

I am the girl in the front car of the crazy train.

I am the girl who blares the radio when the kids aren’t in the car.

I am the girl who picks mint chocolate chip at Baskin Robbins every. single. time.

I am the girl who is always behind on the laundry.

I am the girl with 474 songs on her iPhone.

I am the girl who is iAddicted.

I am the girl who loves chocolate poptarts.

I am the girl who loves songs from the 90’s.

I am the girl who cries during the Pledge of Allegiance. (Thank you, deployment)

I am the girl who currently has 11 blog posts in her queue.

I am the girl who constantly hounds McDaddy about a Saturn Sky.

I am the girl who sucks at math.

I am the girl who loves reality television.

I am the girl who loves jewelry.

I am the girl who gets aggravated when people smoke in front of businesses.

I am the girl squealing when she sees a bug.

I am the girl that says all the stuff that is better left unsaid.

I am the girl who has eczema of the inner ear.

I am the girl with very little patience.

I am the girl who now has a love for baseball.

I am the girl who loves flowers but has a hard time keeping them alive.

I am the girl who loves orange.

I am the girl who is rough around the edges and a princess all at the same time.

I am the girl who is almost always in the wrong lane.

I am that girl who loses her keys frequently.

I am the girl who loves a good story.

I am the girl who loves to meet up with old friends.

I am the girl who enjoys rambling here on the blog.


Which girl are you?

Speaking My Language

When I was deciding on a college major, I went through the course handbook like a crazy person on a search for the major that required the least amount of math. Psychology seemed to fit nicely into my self-imposed math requirement and it sounded like a lot of fun. When I finally settled on psychology as a major, I fully intended on becoming a child psychologist. That is, of course, if I could pass bonehead math, Algebra, and college trigonometry. Believe me folks, it could have went either way.

Even after four years of college, and two years of Grad School, I suck at math. The good news is I am married to McDaddy – who is not only the brains of this operation – but also an engineer. After a few minor misunderstandings between me and the checkbook, we decided it’d be best for our credit rating and our bank accounts if McDaddy presided over the financial records of the household.

And that girl, the one who was forced to take Math 012 right out of the college freshman gate, finished those three math courses and never looked back. That is, until Stevie hit 2nd grade and started bringing home some new-fangled math that has me about ready to pull my hair out.

But we won’t talk about that.

All I’ll say is that IF I were homeschooling, I would just about be at the end of my capabilities in the subject of math. I have always joked that a homeschooling parent needs only to stay one day smarter than her student. That day is rapidly approaching my friends.

Now, talk about the brain and theory and emotion and thought, though and yes ma’am, you are speaking my language. For that reason, I smiled when I discovered that this week’s You Capture challenge is: Emotion – in black and white.

The textbook definition of emotion is the complex psychophysiological experience psychosomething or other of an individual’s state of mind as interacting with biochemical (internal) and environmental (external) influences.

When you cut through the psychobabble, emotion is simply a conscious mental reaction.

Emotion is a big deal around our house.

We are all learning a thing or two about appropriate ways to handle emotion.

Alex takes after me when it comes to emotion and drama. He can go from huggable, lovable to off the hook in a matter of seconds. We have been known to butt heads, but thankfully, gratefully, mercifully, we are getting there. Isn’t he precious?

 Emotion is often associated with mood, (just look at that smile!)

 temperament, (am I blessed or what?)

personality, (I love this fella)

disposition, (holy cow he looks like his daddy right here)

 and the current  situation in our home.

Motherhood plays host to a variety of emotion.

So do hormones.

Three days each month, at least one of us around here is on an emotional roller coaster, but I won’t mention any names or show any pictures of her them.

Just know that the drama and the emotion runs wild some days. I speak it fluently.

And I wouldn’t have it any other way.

A girl should always have a back-up plan

If you’re a regular around here at FITP, Inc. I’ll go ahead and apologize for what you are about to read.

You all know the story of the cute striped rocking chair. You may recall that I’ve whined about it two or three times over the past three months. What you don’t know is that finding that fabric lit a fire under me and I had, what many would call, a crazy fit.

I found the fabric while shopping for a couch and loveseat and immediately I had a vision, or in the words of Oprah, an epiphany. I could see that fabric covering that sweet rocking chair AND I could also see pillows to match the chair on whatever couch and loveseat we picked out.

I called Craftmaster (the maker of the chair), and the dream-killers quoted me a price of $80.00 for two pillows or forty dollars for a yard of fabric that would make four pillows.

Since we are not rich and I have not won any lotteries lately, I set plan B into motion (a girl should always have a back-up plan) and made it my goal to find either two pillows for a third of their price, OR, fabric to make the pillows without needing a loan. To make a long story as short as possible, I’ll just skip right to the facts.

I ended up finding the material for half-price at JoAnn Fabrics for $12.49 per yard and I ordered 20 yards of the custom fabric.

Before any of this took place, my talented seamstress friend Jill mentioned one or two or twelve times that I might want to consider purchasing window treatments from JC Penney because it would be much cheaper and quicker. Once I get something in this head of mine, there is no reason whatsoever to waste your breath, because at that point, it’s as well as done.  And in my head, I knew this blue, yellow and white striped theme for our great room would look fabulous. Once I made my madness perfectly clear Jill agreed to make curtains and pillows for me once the fabric arrived.

And once the fabric arrived, I was thankful that her math skills are better than mine BECAUSE Y’ALL! THERE IS MATH INVOLVED IN THE PATTERN CUTTING AND SEWING. That simple fact means that I will never be a seamstress because I can barely count my fingers and toes without hyperventilating.

In a matter of weeks, Jill made all my striped fabric decorating dreams come true.  She decided to do the bulk of the sewing at my house so that I could help her any way I could talk her head off.

She measured and cut.

And then she measured and cut some more.

Please excuse my lame photography skills.

She sewed for hours and hours on her Singer sewing machine, and I was amazed at her talent, her attention to detail and her knowledge. When we started this thing, I had some grandiose idea that I could present her with a picture from the Internet and she could create it out of fabric. I’ve learned a couple of things about sewing since then and would like to take this opportunity to apologize to Jill for my apparent lack of knowledge for her craft. You see, in my world there is no need for patterns or calculations. All I can see is the final product, so I am grateful for a friend who can get past my craziness to actually figure out what it is that I am hoping for.

Before I show you the finished product, I’ll show you the original “window [mis]treatments”  that were here when we bought the house.

There were also some big puffy white hangy-down ‘shade type things’ that I did away with soon after moving into the house.

My head is on a constant swivel as I admire my newly decorated great room.

Sadly my photography skills do not match Jill’s talent.

This happens to be the cute little rocking chair that is now the focal point (at least for my eyes) of our great room.

And without further ado, here are the four pillows that I adore.

And last on the list was this kitchen curtain which will look much better on this window once I attach the curtain to the shelf, and then move the shelf up four or five inches.

I am blessed to have such a talented friend. Thanks, Jill!

This post is linked to Works For Me Wednesday.

Another Lesson Learned The Hard Way

While I will do my very best to keep this brief, it is possible that it could turn into another of my long windy tails.

It all started with a cute little rocker chair that I found in a catalog at a furniture shop. Then, I found a custom fabric that I absolutely fell in love with and I could not rest until I ordered the chair. After talking McDaddy into it and finding the chair in a neighboring state $200. cheaper than in WV, I ordered the chair. I also asked about ordering a couple of yards of the fabric so I could have my friend Jill make some pillows for our new couch and loveseat. I was told the fabric was $40. a yard. Fast forward to one week later, AFTER I had ordered the chair and ONE YARD of the fabric. I had some time to kill one day, so on a whim, I went into JoAnn Fabrics. Would you believe they not only carry the fabric, but they carry it for much cheaper. On top of that, it was 40% off the normal price of $24.99 per yard.

I was sick, people.

The clerk mentioned that they regularly had 40% off sales on their fabric and she suggested I call each week to check on the sale prices.

On Thursday, I remembered that I had forgotten to call the fabric store. After keeping me on hold for 14 minutes (I straight-up hate to wait!), a gal came on the phone and said, ‘what fabric?’ Which should have been my first clue that I was treading on unfamiliar territory.

“Um, the fabric, like you make curtains with,” I replied.

“Oh, special order fabric, you mean? No, it is not 40% off this week, it is 50% off!”


I just typed hotdiggitygod three times trying to get that right. Goof.

Anyway, I hung up the phone and called my seamstress friend, Jill. (Hi, Jill!)

“How many yards of fabric you think we’re gonna need for these curtains?” I asked her.

And yes, I totally talk like that.

She paused briefly and then laughed and said she would just go with me. Little did I know, the whole fabric process was much more involved than what I first thought.

The fabric is yellow and blue striped and just so happens to be the same fabric my cute little rocker chair will be covered with. And, just in case you forgot what the rocker chair I am referring to looks like (which I have no idea how you could forget because I only whined around about it for weeks!) it looks like this:


OHMYSWEETMERCY I can’t wait for this thing to come in ISN’T IT FABULOUS?


We arrived at the fabric store and I went to the custom fabric rack and grabbed the sample and then Jill mentioned that we needed to look for a pattern. I had no idea why we needed to look for a pattern because I had found a picture of a valance on the internet and printed it off and gave it to Jill so that she could see it and make me one just like it. I thought the picture was the pattern because that’s the way things work in my head.

Only, that is apparently not the way it works.

We headed to the pattern catalog table and settled in for a lengthy pattern searching session.

I found several that were almost what I liked and I couldn’t understand why Jill just couldn’t tweak the pattern and make exactly what I wanted.

Again, welcome to my world where everything is just as I imagine it to be in my head!

Finally, I settled on a pattern that I loved. It was a cute window treatment – (is there anyone out there who calls them window treatments?) valance-type thing and I couldn’t wait to see the finished product. We would also need a second fabric because the curtains were lined, and as luck would have it, many of the other fabrics were 50% as well. I found a beautiful yellow fabric that matched the custom fabric perfectly. Jill sat down at the pattern picking table and asked me how big my windows were.

I replied, “Pretty big.” At the time, Jill seemed a bit surprised that I hadn’t measured the windows. I hadn’t measured my windows because in my head, all bay windows and bow windows are a universal size so why in the heck would I measure my windows? I shut one eye and imagined the windows in my head and then I said, “Well, there are not as wide as I am tall, and for some strange reason 54 is sticking in my head.”

Jill did some math (which I was not able to help with because y’all know I suck at math!) and we wrote down how many yards of each fabric we’d need for my two windows and then we added a yard on to the total just for good measure. We made our way to the counter and I ordered the custom fabric (which is going to fabulous with that chair by the way!) I handed the clerk the bolt (?) of yellow fabric that would only be $3.00 per yard after the 50% discount and the clerk placed it on a computerized machine that counted out the yards. I needed 15 yards of the solid fabric. And wouldn’t you friggin’ know it, there were only 8 yards on the roll.

Well shoot. Now what?

There was not another yellow fabric that would match the custom stuff for under $6.00 or $7.00 per yard and I wasn’t about to jack up my fabulous custom curtains with some lame fabric that only half- matched  just because it was cheap. So, I left the store without a second fabric aggravated because there wasn’t enough of the yellow and even more aggravated because I was leaving there without any second fabric.


I dropped Jill off and then stopped at the K-Mart because they had Halloween costumes 90% off, which is an awesome price for dress-up costumes by the way and then I headed home and wondered how in the heck I was going to tell McDaddy that I had just spent a small fortune on fabric for curtains. I gathered my arsenal thoughts and decided I would sweetly remind McDaddy that I have never purchased curtains for the house and that in all probability I would never purchase curtains for the living room again. And, I would also throw in that I have a birthday next month and I guess it would be okay if the curtains were my birthday present.

And then.


That’s when the stuff hit the fan, folks.

Once McDaddy arrived home from work, I happened to mention that it never dawned on me to measure the windows before going to the fabric store to pick out fabric for the windows I neglected to measure the windows and I could see his mind reeling thinking that surely he had raised me better than that. There I stood, talking to the one person who carefully assesses all parts of a project, even anticipating any and everything that could go wrong before beginning on it wondering how I could be so stupid. It was not my proudest moment.

As it turns out, the windows are 96 inches wide.

Which means, I was off by A LOT of inches. Which means I won’t have enough fabric. Which means I will be picking another type of valance or curtain in the very near future. Which means, we are back to square one at the pattern picking table.

So, I guess to make a miserably long story short, I learned to measure your windows before you go to the fabric store to order custom fabric for curtains.

What did YOU learn this week?


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Hairs A Math Lesson

I fell off the wagon today.

The curling iron wagon.

A couple of months ago, I broke off a long, sometimes shaky relationship with my 3/4 inch barrel ConAir curling iron. My hair never seemed to hold the style anyway, and I felt like the curling iron only offered me the benefit of a decent hair style for about an hour.

And, if I’m being truthful, that’s probably a stretch.

It’s possible that I don’t use enough hair spray to actually hold the style, but the way I’ve got it figured, I used enough hairspray in the 90’s to last me a lifetime.

Me and Rave were good friends.

Great, in fact.

Lots of bangs = Lots of Rave.

It was during that difficult time that I learned first-hand about volume, velocity, gravity, mass, density, and inertia. All in one fell swoop.

Or something like that. Y’all know I stink at math, right?

In fact, if I weren’t watching The Young And The Restless had more time, I’d go scrounge up some old school photos of me and my bangs and show you just how bad it really was.

The bangs were constantly at an all-time high?

It was true in my case.

On a normal Saturday night in preparation for our weekly pilgrimage to the skating rink, my friend, Ami’ and I used enough hairspray for 30 girls. Her bedroom looked like it was covered in a smoke-cloud because of the rave.

THE RAVE. You remember the turquoise bottle, right? I could pouf my bangs with the best of ’em. Little did I know back then, I was dipping my toe in very dangerous hair waters because over the course of my teenage years, there was a small fortune spent on THE RAVE and THE PERM.

I won’t even start on THE PERM, except to say, WHAT IN THE HECK WAS I THINKING?

We’ve all got sin-filled hair closets though, right?

I’ve never been real good with styling hair, but now that I’m a busy stay-at-home mom who rarely stays at home one would assume that I am at a point in my life where I have full control of my hair. 

But most days? I certainly don’t.

Over there in my side bar though?

That was a fantastic hair day. And a very rare day.

I’m sad to report I haven’t seen one of those days in a very long time. Which is the prime reason that picture will probably stay-put for a very long time. Either the left side won’t stay even with the right side, or both sides will flat-out (no pun intended) lay down and die by noon.

If I could have just one wish, well, it wouldn’t be about hair, but the third or fourth wish might be. How do these gals with good hair do it? Do they keep styling until they train their hair? Do they tease, spray, rinse and repeat? I don’t get it. I’ve spent a good chunk of my budget of amount of time looking for quality hair products. It should be a federal law that all hair products be offered in travel bottles just so you can test them out. I think my time and resources would have been better spent on paying all those years ago to have someone come in to help with the hair and show me once and for all what to do with this mess.

I’m hoping this new curling iron (with a concrete ceramic one inch barrel mind you) and some new hair spray will do the trick. I’ll sure let y’all know. In the meantime, enjoy your long weekend! Oh, and if you have any good hair tips, I’d love to hear them!